It’s been about a month since my last pregnancy update. I was hoping to write an update every other week, but, obviously, that has not happened!
Since my last 14 week update, things have been pretty smooth – except for the fact that I tend to forget my limitations (i.e. needing to stop and eat, rest more often, and make sleep a priority). This has led to a few reality checks in this last month, but… such is life with three kids, busy schedules, field trips, 90 degree Fall weather, and homeschool!
Check-up Fun with Three Kids
I had my 16 week appointment over 2 weeks ago and took all three kids with me this time. It was one of those easy appointments (no tests), so I had hopes that I would not regret the decision too much! And, thankfully, it was really quick, painless, and easy. I checked in, was called to the back just after sitting down in the waiting area, and took my weight (7 lbs gained so far) and blood pressure – all good.
Next, we went right to the bathroom for my urine sample. We had to wait to use the bathroom, but that 2 minute wait was the longest of the day! I took my 2 year old in with me, and left my 6 and 8 year old waiting outside the door. Then we all traipsed back to the exam room to wait for my OB.
My oldest took out his book to read and my ever curious 6 and 2 year old pointed at all the posters in the room, tools, cup of pee, etc. demanding a detailed explanation. Well, we are homeschoolers, after all, so what better time for a science lesson!
My OB knocked on the door after less than a minute of intense questioning by the kids, and then they turned their barrage of questions on him! He tested my urine with a test strip – more questions from the kids. Then he measured my growing belly – more questions. Finally, he took out the Doppler to listen for the heartbeat – and, you guessed it – more questions. He was actually very patient with the kids and was not bothered by the questions at all, thank goodness! If he was, I would seriously consider changing providers!
The kids loved hearing the baby’s heartbeat for the first time. (I did, too!) They decided it sounded like “one THOUSAND horses galloping” which was a pretty accurate description.
Then we were done! The entire appointment, from check in to release was less than 10 minutes! I was very thankful for that!
Don’t forget to eat…
In the last four weeks, since my last update, I have gotten over the majority of my pregnancy exhaustion that reappeared after I started our busy homeschool schedule. Any nausea and food aversions also were gone. However, these two things made me more relaxed in my routine, which led to some not so great things…
Like I said, well into the second trimester, I was getting lazy about eating. It wasn’t so much what I was eating – I am still sticking to the Trim Healthy Mama way of eating most the time – but when.
I had to eat every 2 hours in my first trimester or I would feel sick. But I was very careful during that time and rarely felt any nausea and never threw-up. However, with our school schedule getting busier and extra curricular classes starting up, my eating routine started to slide.
I no longer needed to eat every 2 hours, which was great, but I found out on week 15 that if I did not eat after 3 hours, I would be sick! Ugh- not fun!
Week 15, I had just dropped the boys off at a morning class and was taking my 2 year old grocery shopping with me. Suddenly, on the drive to the store, a wave of nausea hit and I felt like I was going to throw up. I looked at the clock. Three hours had passed since breakfast, I didn’t have any snacks with me, and I knew I was going to gag right then and there.
Thankfully, I was at a red light. I picked up an empty cup (there are good things about a cluttered car!) and threw up! The light turned and I drove through it and pulled over to the side of the road until my head stopped spinning. We went to the store, bought the first thing that I could find, a bag of veggie chips, and went back to the car to eat 2/3 of the bag between myself and my toddler. Finally feeling better, we finished our grocery shopping.
You think I would have learned my lesson after that, but I can be a bit dense sometimes…
The next day we were at home and it was a particularly long morning of math with my boys. Suddenly feeling sick, I looked at the clock to realize it was over four hours since breakfast. I threw-up again! Then I ate lunch, but it had been too long and my blood sugar had dropped too low. Eating a meal was not enough. My head was spinning still and nothing was helping. My toddler went down for her nap and the boys got to watch “The Magic School Bus” while I took a nap for about two hours and finally felt better.
I DID learn my lesson after that time, thankfully! Now, I’ve been sure to pack a piece of fruit, nuts, or cheese stick in my purse before we leave the house. I’ve also been sure to stop and have a mid-morning snack when we’re home. Just because the second trimester is easier (usually) than the first, it doesn’t mean I can neglect the needs of my body.
Over doing it…
The second hard lesson I’ve learned this month is the importance of rest. We always do a Fall semester weekend field trip for my husband’s students. We bring the whole family, spend two nights in the wilderness, and everyone learns a lot and has a great time. But, it is also a lot of work (read what I feed this large crew with an allergy friendly menu, here).
I spend the entire week before the trip buying the food, and preparing whatever I can before hand. Then, early Friday morning, we load the kids, food, and gear up, and head to the college to meet the students. A full day of learning, and eating, later, I have the fun task of getting a toddler, who deals with night-terrors when camping, to sleep. We did not get much sleep the first night in our little tent. And a full two days later, after getting home at 10 pm on Sunday night, this pregnant mama was exhausted!
Normally these weekend field trips are tiring, but this time, it hit me so much harder. My husband and I opted not to take our family on the most strenuous hike to the top of Mt. Lassen Peak. But the 4 mile hike we did instead gave me hours of Braxton-Hicks contractions that did not stop until that evening. Monday morning, I was spent! I was physically tired, mentally tired, emotionally tired… I had a headache… Tuesday, after more rest, I was starting to feel better, but I had a lingering headache still. Wednesday, our busiest day of the week, I finally felt like myself again! Thank you, Lord!
I’m looking forward to our 20 week appointments coming up soon! We will get a chance to see our little one growing! It will drive me crazy to not find out the sex, but I’m also kind of excited about waiting – can you be both?